“Do something today, even if it’s wrong.”

— My Father

My Father used to say this often. And in the context in which he used it, he was talking about taking action and making the day count. In general, I agree with this mode of thinking and do my best to make each day count. However, I can also see how it’s helped me make tough choices over the years.

When it comes to making decisions we often hesitate. We let fear and procrastination control the decision-making process.

I know, because I’ve done this myself — far too many times.

The problem with being indecisive is becoming a product of circumstance. If we don’t make decisions time will do it for us.

Many decisions don’t have a clear answer. Each path will have a different outcome, but neither is inherently wrong. Besides, in the end, we’ll never know where the other path might have led — so it really doesn’t matter.

Often, we know what we should do, we’re just not doing it. The right decision is clear, but the pain that comes from executing the decision causes us to procrastinate.

For example: Subconsciously we know we need to end a toxic relationship but avoid the painful conversation by being indecisive. [or making a career change, leaving a spouse, etc.]

We avoid making a decision because the result of that decision might cause us pain and discomfort.

Do something today means making that choice, for better or worse. It’s about taking action and valuing time. It’s about controlling the situation – in spite of possible discomfort.

Take action and make a choice today — whether it’s right or wrong.